As of the beginning of this week Ron is now allowed in a wheelchair. He can push
himself very slowly with his good arm and leg (The right leg and arm).
He is fighting to be as independent as possible, and won't stay in bed
any longer. They x-rayed him after one of the falls and the doctor said
everything looked good and is healing well, therefore they have let him get
in and out of a wheelchair with assistance. He has been a lot happier.
Once
in the wheelchair he was able to have a real shower. He was very happy
about that. Ron is so thin. He had always been thin, but not quite like
this. His clothes hang on him. He is eating and liking the food so that
is good. I keep bringing him Pepsi, he loves Pepsi, and lots of candy
bars. Hopefully that helps him gain some weight. I asked him what kind
of sweets or candy he is craving. He asked for Hot Tamales. Hmmm. I
didn't know those still existed.. I did find some! Watching him eat
again in the beginning of solid foods was like watching a child eat a
treat that he only gets on special occasions. He loved eating a burger,
fries and shake for the first time after the accident as well. It was
almost like he had forgotten about food along with the short term memory
loss.
A lot of Ron's memory improves weekly. He still
forgets some things, but amazingly and miraculously he is remembering a
lot more now. He can recall who comes to visit as well as short term
activities and names of those who care for him. He really likes his new speech therapist. She plays poker with him. He loves that. I knew he would like her, she is very down to earth and can handle Ron's personality.
He asked me recently if
our sister Jen was still with her boyfriend and stated his name. I said
no, she is married to Kurt. He then quickly said. That is who I meant,
Kurt Neeley. Sometimes it takes a minute for him to remember. This
doesn't happen nearly as much as it did in the beginning. He didn't know
who I was when he came out of his coma! That is how far he has come. I
was talking to a friend in my neighborhood who had a brother who
suffered some memory loss from an accident. He never did regain his
short term memory. He would recall things from the past and never fully
recovered. It is a miracle that Ron has come this far in only a few
months since the accident.
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